Case
Study #17 The Case of the Challenging Cruise by Ivan
Rosenberg
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Shorty Powers |
| Michael
"Shorty" Powers was a "hell on wheels" kind of guy. His adventures
appeared to have ended in 1969 when a car accident killed one of his friends and
paralyzed Shorty from the waist down. Shorty felt grief and depression at the
sudden loss and the sense that life as he had enjoyed it was over. |
| As
Shorty will tell you, when faced with such a dramatic change of circumstances,
you have a choice-give up or live fully. Shorty has always been committed to living
life fully, which for him means being competitive in athletics and taking on other
challenges. Rather than give up, Shorty looked for a sport in which, despite his
lack of useful legs, he could compete on equal terms with ABs (the "able
bodied"1). He discovered fishing. Thus began 30-plus years of
fishing-tournament wins. |
| But
that is just background to the real story. |
Turning POINT |
| Imagine
for a moment how you would get around your house in a wheelchair, and what you
would go through emotionally, knowing this was how the rest of your life was going
to be. Shorty had experienced the depression and the battle for mobility faced
by a person who has lost the use of limbs. |
| For
Shorty, living life fully also meant contributing to others who could benefit
from his experience. Twenty-five years ago he founded Turning POINT (Paraplegics
On Independent Nature Trips) to support paraplegics ("paras") as they
go through the emotional aspects of loss and assist them to see that they can
build new lives, just as exciting and fulfilling as the old, using fishing and
other outdoor activities. Symbolic of the organization is a poster showing four
empty wheelchairs parked at water's edge. A sign on the chairs reads, "Gone
Fishing." |
Climbing Guadalupe Peak |
After
founding Turning POINT, Shorty could have just kept things going as they
were. However, his life is a demonstration of, "It's only a limit if you
think so." He looked for other breakthroughs to demonstrate to paras "that
they can do a whole lot more for themselves than everybody, including themselves,
thinks they can." Guadalupe Peak is Texas' highest mountain. At 8,751 feet,
it looms more than 3,000 feet above the surrounding desert. In 1982 Shorty
inspired five of his friends to take on the challenge of climbing it. No ABs were
allowed to help. |
| Adding
to the challenge, the six committed to the climb before they figured out how to
do it or even did any research concerning the conditions with which they would
have to deal. They committed to producing the breakthrough, then figured out how
to do it. I'll return to this later. |
| It
turned out that the 4.2-mile stony trail to the summit crosses dry streams with
rocky beds. It's difficult hiking even for those who walk. ABs can step over the
rocks and the tree trunks laid across the trail to prevent erosion; for wheelchairs,
each one was a major obstacle. During the hike, rainy days turned the ground to
mud. Sometimes it took Shorty and his friends six hours to cover the same ground
ABs could traverse in 20 minutes. For five days they made their way along the
rocky trail, crawling most of the time, pulling their wheelchairs with ropes held
in their teeth. ("We had no idea it was going to be that rocky," Shorty
said later. "But we didn't let that stop us.") Three made it to the
top. |
 |
Joe
Moss (left), Dave Kiley (center), and Don Rodgers (right) at the summit monument
of Guadalupe Peak, Texas2 |
| You
are starting to get a sense of the man. And that still is not the story I want
to tell. |
Turning POINT Nation |
| When
I first met Shorty, Turning POINT was a collection of relatively independent chapters
scattered across the country. Shorty was committed to the organization being able
to deliver services nationally and having the clout to cause change. How to accomplish
that was unclear, and there wasn't even agreement on the goals (some chapters
liked their independence). I was hired to facilitate the Board developing a strategic
plan, starting with creating the national organization's vision/future and working
backwards to the present3 (just as Shorty and his friends figured out
how to get to the top of Guadalupe Peak after committing to do it-what we call,
in the discipline of transformation, a true breakthrough). |
| The
planning sessions took place between ports during a Caribbean cruise. The process
was successful, resulting in today's Turning Point Nation organization (www.turningpointnation.org).
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The Cruise: a Lesson in Freedom from Limitations and Constraints |
| I
always believed, as I imagine most heterosexual people do, that I needed to be
physically able and good looking to attract the opposite sex. The first night
out that assumption was destroyed. Their wheelchairs didn't stop the Board members
from getting out on the disco floor and dancing, sometimes on two wheels. |
| That
was impressive enough, but then I noticed that ABs (including some very good looking
ABs) were lining up to dance with Shorty and his colleagues. There they all were
on the floor-moving with the rock music, sweating, flirting, having a great time.
The wheelchairs were simply not relevant. That did not fit what I "knew"
to be true. I started to suspect that because their physical situation was irrelevant
to them, it was irrelevant to others as well. Shorty and his fellow board members
were in wheelchairs, but they weren't stuck being guys and gals in wheelchairs,
with the obvious (to me) limitations that come along with that. Instead, they
were fully expressing themselves, unconstrained and uncontained-playful, sexy,
funny-totally alive and, as a result, enormously attractive. I thought to myself
how much we are all suppressed by our own thinking. We let ourselves be victims
when we could be free, powerful, alive. |
| During
the entire cruise, despite obstacles such as getting from the ship to small shuttle
boats and negotiating the cracked streets in a Jamaican city, the Board members
never let anything stop them from enjoying any activity. Their physical condition
was as relevant to them as their height or hair color-things you might have to
take into account, but nothing that would stop you. They were a joy to be with
because they were so completely authentic and alive. |
What I Learned |
| Instead
of paying attention to our circumstances and using those as reasons why we can't
have what we want, we can- like Turning Point Nation members-make a commitment
and then figure out how to fulfill it. We can have our circumstances rather than
allow our circumstances to have us. |
| As
Shorty says, "It's only a limit if you think so." |
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| 1When
I worked with the Turning POINT board, I was in a distinct named group, the ABs
("able-bodieds"), while everyone else, in this instance the paraplegics,
had no group designation. Maybe there is an insight here: we ABs consider ourselves
"normal" and thus not in need of group identification, and we assign
group names to those we view as different in some way from ourselves |
| 2For
a video of the news story of their climb go to www.youtube.com/watch?v=gW8KjSrFI1w. |
| 3See
"Strategic Planning #5: Designing
the Future from the Future." |
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